SearchingForU2 from Des Moines, USA

Most people who meet me for the first time say I look and act younger than my age. Maybe this is true; I cannot say. If a woman finds me handsome, I would be pleased. But I would be even more pleased if she looks into my heart and finds love and kindness. My personality is rather laid back most of the time, but when my passions are aroused it can be rather surprising. As much as possible I try to treat people with kindness and trust unless they give me a reason not to. I dislike injustice, lying, dishonesty and manipulation, just to name a few. For the most part I consider myself warm and affectionate toward a woman I like and trust. I consider myself spiritually minded as compared to religious, because I believe that matters of the heart, and a love for God and people, are more important than religious rituals and the many different denominations that have little meaning to me. I think I have a pretty good sense of humor and lightheartedness unless the situation calls for seriousness. My friends laugh at my stories that are usually true. I love children, but at the present time I don’t plan to have any more than the two grown children I already have. However, having said that, I must admit that if I find the right loving woman and we consider ourselves true soul mates, love can work wonders; possibly even in the creation of a child. As far as me relocating, it would all depend on the situation.

I'm looking for a woman who is reasonably attractive and intelligent, and who accepts her natural appearance without having to wear a lot of makeup or color her hair a lot in order to feel pretty. I'd prefer a woman 45 years of age or younger, as long as she's a woman of maturity, who is warm, caring, trustworthy, sincere, and who can smile easily. A woman of compassion and understanding is also important. However, she must be passionate and affectionate in order to match mine. Whether or not she likes to travel and dance or lead an exciting life is not important to me. I would most times want to join her in all this, because I love her. But maybe sometimes I don't wish to join her, and I will be free to decline without upset. I want a woman who thinks she can develop trust in a man to be the gentle but strong leader of their relationship, but not as dictator. And lastly I would hope as our relationship deepens that confidence would grow, and she would feel free to share what is on her heart and know that this trust would be respected and not abused.