Here we are at a point in our lives where we should be enjoying it, but we find ourselves searching instead. If it..s a friend a date or better yet, something long term, we are searching. I think most people here would agree that they would rather not be searching. Starting over is a tough thing to do, but to get in a hurry and jump into another relationship just to be in one, can't be the answer either. To me a relationship usually blossums out of frienship. I see profiles on here that say it should be 50/50 in a relationship, but really it is 100/100 percent to make a relationship work. Going at 50 means your are only half trying. Trust and honesty should play a major role in one as well. I am open and honest almost to a fault. I enjoy and adore the small things in life. I do not need for someone that wants to buy the world or impress me with there abilities to do anything. It is more important to communicate openly, honestly and have a passion for trust and life

murray