If the man is not concerned, that he is dating with a little hysterical woman, that she has high material demands of daily trips to restaurants and clothing, then these relationships will not last for too long. He knows that it will end after a week or so.
However, in the case of long-term relationships, many relationships can be based on completely different criteria.
Better man chooses the woman with whom he can comfortably live, laugh and be happy than a very beautiful, but hysterical. After all, to tolerate her demands for one week - is one thing, and to endure it for the rest of his life is another thing.
The same principles apply to women. If you like a man, it doesn't mean that you love him. However, if you want to live with him all your life, you will appreciate the "cost" of living with this man. If now something in the man annoys you, such as excessive drinking, then think about what will happen over ten years of marriage? For example, if a man does not care about his woman that goes in the 30 degree cold without a hat and tights, he does not care about your future plans. A man, who wants to spend his entire life in peace and love with one woman, will take care about his woman and her health. Of course, much depends on education, but you understand the main point.