I promise that every thing you are looking for are every thing I am...and much more!! I too am looking for a lover, a best friend and someone whom is devoted to not only their job but to the one person in their life (lol me) jk(its a 2 way street) who means every thing to them. I am a single lady never married . I have spent the last 25yrs learning character and behavior. I work hard but don't overwork(well not anymore lol) I'm looking for someone who also works hard but isn't a workaholic. Don't get me wrong...I have nothing against a person who works hard but I also know the difference between working hard and working too much. So if your a workaholic than keep on working!! I'm not the girl for you. I haven't had a lot of me time in the past few years due to circumstances that have led to me re-building my life for myself. I feel that I have accomplished most of what I want out of life except in the area of finding my better half. lol (We can talk about that later) I want a man who wants me in every way a person could want and need someone!! So if you feel that I am the person your looking for and you still feel that I am that person...than please feel free to leave me a message. "I sure would like to get to know you better