When it comes to life and how we view who we are I have taken the time to figure out who I am. In doing so I have also figured out the type of person I would like to spend the rest of my life with. I really do not like the dating scene, I think it's old and played out. I guess that's why I'm here to hopefully find that special someone I may not meet otherwise through conventional ways. What I am looking for is my best friend, the person I can turn to for anything and know she will have my back as I will have hers. Over the years I have come to realize that a good relationship must first start with a very good friendship. I know that love is not based on sex but on the ability of two people knowing how to communicate with each other and resolving any problems, together as one. I'm not just looking another short lived relationship but a young lady that is willing to go the distance through all the good and the bad. I know this is a lot to ask for and a tall order to fill but in my heart I know my one and only is out there, we just haven't met yet....SMILE....