If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Always let a man know everything even he will use it against you later it does not matter , what matters is that you have played your part well. You cannot change a man's behavior but appreciate the worst of him so he will be calm enough to know which is good cos Change comes from within. Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are as equality is what you both needs to worship... even he has more education or in a better job, do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are before you know for you are an Angel from God. Never borrow someone Else's man. Oh Lord!not funny.....lol .. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. All men are NOT dogs.compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships . deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for a man to complete you cos you need a full senses to make things go through,but you can make it better when you have the right man to help through issues...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted but best to be appreicated for trust sakes. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need and you both the lil like nothing you have. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies... .. You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. . Accept Me I am I Do not change me, condemn me, nor put me down. Accept me for what I am, NO you need not agree with me, but accept me. For I am total in being, I have my faults, I have my guilt's, but that is who I am. PERFECT I WILL NEVER BE! Allow me to be uninhibited, DO NOT PRESSURE ME into feeling what I do not feel. Accept me when I am flying high, as I have accepted you when you were flying high. Do not put me down, nor make me feel unhappy about me. I AM I... AND I LIKE BEING WHAT I AM... ME...Thanks for reading dear friend.

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