HSFastpitch from Granada Hills/Los Angeles, USA

I am an honest man; I need a good woman in my life. I want someone to love, emotionally, mentally, and physically. With deeds of affection, like sweets or flowers just because I want to see her smile, or when she has had a difficult day I will wash her hair for her and feel the intimacy of her relaxing to my massage. I like sundresses and light peasant skirts that flow in the breeze exposing just enough leg to catch my imagination. I like to cook for my woman, and introduce her to new experiences in her life. See I talk too much and forget what I need to tell you. I am a good man and keep my promises even after many years. I was married for 27 years to a wonderful Mexican girl. We literally fell in love at first site. We were married a few weeks later, and I only kissed her one time before we got married. (By misunderstanding her saying “excuse me” for “Kiss me”) Oops!!! So respect for traditional customs is not a problem for me. My wife was diagnosed with a terminal incurable illness and I had to stop working to care for her. This illness kills in usually 3 years, and only 10% live to 5 years, but with my care and Gods help I had 10 years with her after she became sick. She was unable to move her hands, arms and legs, eventually I had to feed her through a tube and treat her as a baby. This only made my love for her stronger. After she passed, I had to pay many bills and expenses, but there is nothing wrong with starting over. I still have a nice house and lovely grown children to help me. During my wife’s illness, I gained a lot of weight and did not take proper care of myself, but in the past 12 weeks I have lost 30 pounds and am committed to losing more weight and becoming healthier and more active like before. I still wish to find a beautiful woman and get married, but must first be honest about any health issues. I know I’m probably not a perfect match to your criteria, but I have items that you did not list that are important, I’m a good man with integrity and a good father, I have respect in my profession current and past, I am known in the community and even get recognized for my coaching all across Los Angeles (even when pumping gas in the car) so please write to me even though you might not see a stud muffin or what you are lusting for, I’m someone that you would be proud of 20 years from now in ways you haven't foreseen yet. I can let you have as much independence you wish or willing support you may need. Only wishing some of the same with loyalty to boot. I have no idea how to write what touches your heart or funny bone or whatever it will take to get you to look past my age and Humpty Dumpty average appearance. I wish to live here, in California, the weather is wonderful and near all types of nature. Pacific Ocean beaches 1/2 hour travel, Deserts 1 hour travel, Mountains 1 hour travel. Forests 1 hour travel. Plus, Hollywood, Disneyland and many other attractions just a short drive away from where I live. I live in a single family home, it has 4 bedrooms, two bathrooms, a fireplace and a small private pool in the back yard. It is on a corner lot on a quiet street. The land area is pretty big and I have planted 8 fruit trees. Orange, lime, apple, plum, nectarine, pear, peach and guava. I like animals and will always have some sort of animal in the house, cats or small dogs are the easiest. But I might have a chicken or two for fresh natural eggs. So please consider that in your decision as well. I have 3 daughters, 25, 20, 15. The oldest two will be starting their own lives. The teenager is happy to be with her friends than to be with family, but that is natural. I am willing to have more children, I like family life. I prefer to stay home and watch movies or television, than to go out to clubs. I like to drive and travel, Las Vegas is close if you want a wild nightlife. Or a night with wildlife at the Grand Canyon, Yosemite, or Sequoia National Parks, just a day’s drive away. If you like a night under the stars... If you feel you understand the changes I am making and that you wish a truly loving family type of man in your life. Please write back to me with any questions you may have. Respectfully, Jim

Feminine, adaptable and flexible. YOUNG I would like her to live longer than me, so she can keep our dreams alive after I am gone. NOT: a party girl, a gold digger. Not promiscous or fridged. prefers sun dresses and skirts to jeans or pants. please have pretty legs, most men prefer breasts or butts, I prefer to see pretty legs. someone that can be pragmatic, and has some goals in life. loves home life and family.