|Age:||69 years and 313 days|
|Registration:||15 August 2011|
|Weight:||53 kg (116 lb)|
|Height:||5 cm (0 ft 1 ins)|
I am looking for my mindmate and companion to grow old together in a serious, close, bonded, exclusive, committed relationship, as a shared and reciprocal safe haven.
My wish is a relationship according to the 'Egalitarian Rational Commitment Paradigm'. A web search will lead you to find my blog, where you can learn more about this concept.
I am German, this explains my not perfect English. My search for a compatible mindmate is world wide, if there is a common language, which can be English, German, Spanish, French, Dutch or Italian. In the times of email, telephone and airtravel, geographical distance is much easier to overcome than mental distance.
I will send a picture in private email, but only after a bit of corresponding, when there is enough interest in my person. I do not want to be either chosen or rejected because of a picture. If my profile without a picture does not interest you, then you are too superficial for me.
You are PHILEMON, if you
~ are a man between about 60 and 70;
~ are a university graduate;
~ are an atheist and apistic, a skeptic, rational and free of any woo-woo-beliefs;
~ are childfree by not having any children of any age;
~ are really free, not only 'separated' and you do not surround yourself with a harem of deactivated intimate (pseudo-ex-) partners;
~ do not have or need pets;
~ are politically between left and green;
~ are bearded and natural by refraining from any body-modification, lacking vanity;
~ do not smoke and drink in moderation,
~ value sharing time and activities with a partner much more than money;
~ feel a stronger need for togetherness and sharing than for personal space and independence;
~ are more an Epicurean than a hedonist;
~ have high ethical standards and values like honesty, sincerity, monogamy, faithfulness, reliability, responsibility, consideration;
~ are sensitive, emotional, caring, hypoanimalistic,
~ are a deep thinker, who enjoys meaningful and constructive communication;
~ prefer cooperation over competition;
~ are attracted to a mate by her aptitude for intellectual intimacy;
~ are clever enough to find and contact me !
With the exception of the beard, I am all of the above myself.
In contrast to many other women, it is UNIMPORTANT for me, if you are or are not
~ taller than myself (5'4")
~ wealthy with a high social status
~ a strong and muscular stud
I want to love, not to puke. I do NOT want any contact with men, who evoke my nausea, because they are:
~ promiscuous like alley dogs abusing female bodies without long-term commitment;
~ consumers of pornography;
~ considering such behaviors as principally acceptable
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