vinss from Closest to Paris, France

I am happy, positive, warm, easy-going, assertive, selective, straight-forward, sassy, charismatic, respectful of others, sensitive to people’s feelings. I take constructive and calm approach to conflict resolution. I don’t let emotions get on the way of problem resolution. I may come off as aloof, but trust me, I have high capacity for deep compassion; I am just not into drama. I am adventurous and spontaneous, and can pack my little travel bag and take off to go overseas on a minute notice. I am creative, innovative and highly energetic. I get excited about new ideas and don’t procrastinate. I get along well with people who have the same mindset. I have a variety or interests and social circles. They are a part of my life and while I don’t expect my partner to always pick up on my interests. I am respectful of other people’s space, their need for alone time or time away, and their need to decompress, as long as what needs to be done gets done; I am a result-oriented person, not process-oriented. I am pretty tolerant and forgiving, as long as my tolerance is not abused. When someone says they are going to do something, I take their promise for its face value, but if it doesn’t get done, I won’t nag, I’ll do it myself. I am independent in every way, but when I find myself doing everything for everybody all the time, I lose passion. I find it to be extremely important to have a true companionship where no one feels taken advantage of. Don’t take it as if I keep score or put a price tag on things though. I truly think that the biggest value that a woman can contribute in a relationship is the understanding, inspiration, encouragement and emotional support.

I would like to meet someone who is responsible, and generous and who has traditional (old-fashioned) values. I know that in this modern society a woman is frequently expected to take charge and to go after what she wants without hesitation and not allowing a man to “properly” court her. I was brought up differently. I like being pampered and courted. I take notice of the little things that are done to please me and I am very appreciative of them. It seems like a very simple thing to do that doesn’t require much effort in order to make a woman feel like a woman.