If you are looking for a lady who is honest and trustworthy, loving and affectionate - then read on. I love watching the little garden birds feeding off the bird table, visiting Country Houses and Gardens, walking on the beach. Most of all my family life means everything - we have been very influenced by our African background together with its traditions and family values.  Nicely spoken and well educated, I'm gregarious, full of fun with a great sense of humour. Very much a person - wearing my heart of my sleeve and being totally honest has got me into trouble many times in my life, but I am a "dust yourself down pick yourself up - tomorrow is another day" person. My friends would say I am down to earth, warm and dependable - someone who has blossomed over the years into a butterfly. I'm a very dependable, homely loving lady (a bit crazy at times if thats ok) Enough about me, I would love to hear about you.